Is Your Daughter Bossy?

Lately, I've seen many articles floating around the net about girls bring bossy, and whether or not calling them bossy is a good thing.
Of course, with my professional background, I'm usually pretty good at recognizing a young leader when I see one; male or female. However, with three daughters, I recognize leadership skills but want to make sure that they aren't bring too bossy. There's such a thin line between being a leader and being bossy. I try to teach my girls that being a leader does not always mean you're running everything; it also means you can follow as well.
What's your take on being bossy? As you ponder it, I'd like to share a couple articles I found on Twitter: